FUCKING BANG ON!

^^ that article is a perfect description of everything that I have been talking about!

I especially like the paragraph which explains what happened to me perfectly…
“Nice Guys exude insecurity — a big red target for the predators of the world. There are women out there who are “users” — just looking for a sucker to take advantage of. Users home-in on “Nice Guys”, stroke their egos, take them for a ride, add a notch to their belts, and move on. It’s no wonder so many Nice Guys complain about women being horrible, when the so often the kind of woman that get’s attracted to them is the lowest form of life…”

Top marks!!
That article really has explained so much to me, and made me feel a shit load better!

It makes perfect sense to me now about what I’ve been doing wrong. I fully admit to EVERYTHING that the woman wrote in that article! It fits my relationship pattern to a T. Now I know exactly what it means and everything has just slotted into place for me. I knew that I needed to sort myself out before I could start another relationship, I just didn’t know what I needed to sort out but now it’s clear as day. No more Mr Nice Guy. There’s no way I can do this instantly but I’m sure as hell going to work on it. One thing which is sorted, I know what I want out of my life and I’m well on my way to fully achieving it. I just have to learn to like and love who I am. Slightly more difficult but not impossible.

Tomorrow is a new day. A new day for a new me. I can’t wait!